Writers: beware when you share

Share what I’ve accomplished today? No thanks! Picture by Terry Freedman

Share what I’ve accomplished today? No thanks! Picture by Terry Freedman

Like many writers (probably most) I suffer from imposter syndrome sometimes. Because of that, together with my experience that everyone (except writers) seems to think that writing is easy, I prefer to share work in progress or small achievements with other writers.

I’m thinking in particular of the one and only time I clicked on a “Tweet this” button in Scrivener. It produced a tweet reading something like “I’ve written 723 words today!”. The only response I received was “And?”.

Had I shared that with my writer friends, I am fairly sure they would have offered encouragement and congratulation rather than a cheap put down. Yes, from one point of view, “And?” is the right response: my writing 723 words in a day isn’t a great achievement in the total scheme of things. But:

  • If I’d had several days in which I could not write a thing, that would have been fantastic.

  • If I was working on an article with a 750 word limit, I’d have virtually completed it in one day.

  • Most important of all, I actually sat down and wrote something. I had some ideas, and I spent the time doing something with them. Too many people say “One of these days…”, and never do anything with their ideas.

I can see that my tweet may have come across as a boast. It would be a strange thing to consider boast-worthy though! It was simply a small celebration on my part at having written over 700 words. Plus, I wanted to see what sort of reaction I’d get, mainly because I couldn’t really understand why anybody would wish to share such news anyway.

Since then, I have only shared achievements with family and writer friends. As I am quite good at doubting myself, I don’t really need anybody reinforcing that by saying “And?”. If you are similar, I strongly recommend not sharing small personal achievements on social media.

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